The Five Love Languages

Colby and I shared our second ever Valentine’s Day together this year! I can’t believe we’ve been married for six months and this is only our second time celebrating this holiday as a couple. It feels like we’ve been together for much longer. Last year, Colby took me out to a (terrible) Italian restaurant at Green Valley Ranch Resort in Henderson. I remember I had some overpriced chicken that looked like roadkill and tasted about as dry as roadkill probably is. I swear, it was just a flattened chicken with tread marks on it. The dessert was almost unmentionably phallic. Picture it: a chocolate lump, dragging behind it a streak of red raspberry sauce, with some stewed cherries hanging out at the end like testicles. Yum?

This year’s Valentine’s Day was much better! We spent it at Green Valley Ranch again, but this time got a room for the night at the resort. I wanted to show Colby how much I love him, so I got inspired by Gary Chapman’s five love languages. The love languages are the primary ways in which different people receive love. Different people feel loved through different ‘languages.’ I decided to play it safe by using ALL FIVE!

#1- Gifts:

Colby’s gifts were DELICIOUS homemade baked goods from our fundraiser bake sale at work. Check out the goodies!

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This only represents a small fraction of the treats my co-workers brought in. Colby actually baked some very tasty cookies for the bake sale too. Here’s the recipe; definitely make these if you can decipher it:

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Colby’s hershey kiss cookies were SO good, I ended up buying back all the leftovers Smile I guess I sortof gifted him the cookies he made… does that mean I re-gifted? He also got one of everything else at the bake sale; I couldn’t resist!

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Does it surprise you at all that I ended up eating all of these treats besides the snickerdoodle? I should have known I wouldn’t be able to control myself! Colby is the kind of guy who snacks on grape tomatoes at night. What kind of guy is that? An adorably healthy one, says the dietitian with a killer sweet tooth Winking smile As for me, I really loved the tiramisu, marble cake, s’mores cupcake, peanut butter cup cupcake, cheesecake… sigh… Stay tuned for a post about “binge control.”

#2 Affirmation

I wrote Colby a love letter to remind him that he’s awesome. I think he knows he is, but I wanted to be sure!

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#3 Acts of Service

Colby got two acts of service: I returned the stupid overdue DVD from Blockbuster Express that he had rented 3 days before. We never even watched the movie he rented, Puncture. Returning the DVD was a huge pain because the Blockbuster box ended up being broken, so I had to call customer service. Oh the things we do for people we love…

The second act of service was cooking a surprise dinner for him. It was lots of fun to put together! I bought a Valentine’s Day Pizza Kit from Sammy’s Woodfired pizza, Colby’s favorite pizzeria.

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Inside, I found instructions for making a tasty love pizza:

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…And all the basic ingredients needed in perfect portions for a hungry husband:

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I added some extra ingredients of my own to recreate Colby’s favorite BBQ chicken pizza…

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Delicious!! I made a spinach salad to keep myself from attacking HIS dinner.

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It was actually pretty satisfying… I guess.

#4 Quality Time

After dinner, we were excited to get to the Green Valley Ranch to check into our stay-cation room! Colby skipped all of his classes on Wednesday and I had the day off from work, so we got to fully enjoy our time together. The next morning, we hurried down to the fitness center and spa. The Green Valley Ranch spa is rated among the top 3 in Las Vegas! I wasn’t surprised after experiencing a long morning there.

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Colby swam in the heated lap pool while I took a relaxing yoga class. We had a bit of time apart when we were each enjoying the amenities in the men’s and women’s spa areas: sauna, steam room, waterfall showers… Aside from that, we spent almost every minute of the day together, enjoying mimosas, brunch, and each other’s company.

#5 Physical Touch

Don’t worry, I won’t get graphic here. I was actually very sick with a sinus infection on Valentine’s Day this year, so coming in physical contact with Colby was a bad idea. I’ve been so contagious that probably even high-fiving him would have gotten him sick. Sigh. I was super lame and fell asleep as soon as we got to our very spacious and luxurious room. Of course, slipping into a Nyquil-induced coma was not the plan for a romantic Valentine’s Day evening, but it was a necessary sacrifice to enjoy a full day of activities the next morning.

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I think Colby really enjoyed all of the love languages! See how happy he looks?

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Awww… and he got all dressed up, thinking we were going to go out for dinner! What are your top love languages? Do you prefer to be loved with gifts, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, or physical touch? I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s day with someone sweet!

Cooking with cheap vegetables

Hello there! I’m back at Barnes and Noble, enjoying another weekly bookstore date with Colby! I think he’s reading about home defense (another of his favorite topics). It’s been a nice, laid back weekend so far. Yesterday I got myself mentally equipped for a double bootcamp workout. The first hour was pretty standard- a muscle burning shoulder and back session consisting of assisted pull ups, rows, lateral raises, shoulder presses, and more. The second class was a special treat: a basketball workout! Every Saturday, the 16 members of the “RAW Results” challenge are allowed to attend a special private bootcamp class. As one of the members, I got to partake in the special workout yesterday. Here’s the interesting thing about our group: we are all very good at bootcamp exercises (running, burpees, mountain climbers, etc), but we are NOT athletes. I actually think we were all the last ones picked to be on sports teams in PE classes as kids. We have always been so uncoordinated or out of shape that we decided to change it by becoming fitness beasts. We are, indeed, very “fit.” But we are unfit to play basketball. And our instructor knows nothing about the rules of the game, either. Here’s how it went:

To pick team captains, we all lined up and took turns shooting a free throw. The first two people to make a basket would be the captains. It took us three times going through the lineup before two people had made a basket. Although yesterday’s six on six basketball game reminded me that no, I am not, and will never be, an athlete, it was still fun. We were all happy that the instructor finally let us switch back to what we do best- jump squats, abdominal exercises, and sprints. Yes! We are champs in the sport of “fitness!”

The entertainment in the next part of my Saturday was provided by much better basketball skills. Colby and I attended the UNLV vs SDSU basketball game. Thanks, Agata, for the student ticket! I am not usually a fan of watching basketball. Colby typically has to bribe me with the promise of a jog together or an order of delicious chicken fingers at the game to get me to go. Yesterday he won me over with a brand new UNLV t-shirt.

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The game was actually awesome! The best basketball game I’ve ever seen (and maybe this gets me off the hook for watching basketball in the future, after all, why watch any more games if they won’t be nearly as exciting as this one?) UNLV and SDSU were closely matched. SDSU’s style was razor sharp, they obviously practice a lot. The UNLV team was beastly, though, and beat out the opponents by two points during the last minute of the game! Woo hoo! Best part? Colby and I got free Raising Cane’s after the game with our tickets! I hope it’s possible to get free chicken strips with every student ticket in the future; I can see printing off a ticket, skipping the game, and heading right over to get my treat at Cane’s Winking smile 

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Diet wise, I’m a little torn about the idea of being allowed a “cheat meal” each week. I get that it might be a good idea for most people as a metabolism boost or to safeguard against feeling deprived, but for me, a cheat meal usually turns into a whole cheat DAY (or cheat week). As far as splurges go, however, this was well worth it. The chicken strips were fresh and tender, never frozen, with a light marinade and breading. Only 127 calories per strip. The crinkle fries ROCKED with the special Cane’s sauce. The toast is usually delicious too, but the meal we got yesterday was kids meal sized: two tenders, fries, and sauce with a cup of water on the side. I try to keep in mind that it’s ok to get fast food as long as I downsize, not supersize.

Have you ever noticed that fast food, chocolate, and treats taste SO much better after a week of clean eating? I think that’s why Cane’s was so mouth wateringly exceptional yesterday. I ate very healthily most of the week.

Every Sunday I do my grocery shopping, usually at Fresh & Easy because they send me good coupons and their produce is frequently marked down for quick sale. When planning my meals for the week, I always start with the clearance section so I have some extra money left in the budget for items I can’t go without, like spinach and eggs.

Last weekend I brought home radishes, broccoli, french green beans, brussels sprouts, and cabbage. It was a fun challenge to cook these up during the week. Here’s what I made:

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Steamed green beans sautéed with onions, hot sauce, and chicken sausage. Crunchy and spicy!

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Brussels sprouts tossed in olive oil, salt, and black pepper then oven roasted for 30 minutes at 425. Served with baked tilapia. Meh. They weren’t so spectacular, but maybe you’d love ‘em if you’re a big brussels sprouts fan.

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Green cabbage stewed with diced chicken sausage and granny smith apples. Seasoned with only black pepper and lemon juice, this dish was excellent! Colby said this was one of the best meals I’ve made so far. Definitely making this again soon!

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Broccoli florets tossed in olive oil, black pepper, and salt. Roasted for 15 minutes at 400 degrees and sprinkled with a bit of grated parmesan. These were freakishly good! The florets started to caramelize, so they were a little bit sweet and savory. Too bad there were none left for Colby.

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The radishes were the biggest challenge. How the heck do you COOK radishes? I decided to try them sautéed with a bit of butter and served with seared tilapia. You wouldn’t even know these were radishes! They were sweet and tender, a bit like potatoes but much less starchy. I ended up sautéing them for about 15 minutes in a saucepan with the lid on to steam them tender. Topped simply with black pepper, these were a surprisingly good side dish.

One of the highlights of my week was the unique opportunity to lead two grocery shopping tours for families of the kids I work with. The store manager at Food 4 Less provided all the kids with goodie bags filled with fresh fruit. I think the key to getting kiddos to try new fruits and vegetables is to sample them like this. Who doesn’t love free food, after all? It was great to see how excited the families were to learn about healthy grocery shopping! They eagerly examined nutrition labels and ingredients lists to pick the healthiest breads, lunchmeats, and yogurts. Can’t wait to do more tours in the near future!

Do you shop with a grocery list? Do you love cooking and grocery shopping as much as I do?

Coffee or Tea?

I love love LOVE coffee!! It keeps me going each and every day. Usually one cup in the morning does the trick, but particularly relaxed Sunday afternoons require an extra caffeine boost. Today, it’s in the form of a Grande Skinny Mocha from Starbucks. Did you know a grande has two shots of espresso? I got 175 mg of caffeine from my drink and am ready to take on the rest of the day! If you’re a caffeine fiend like me, you’ll love this website.

Recently, I’ve been considering making the switch to green tea for energy instead of throwing back extra cups of joe throughout the day. Check out this pin I found on Pinterest touting the benefits of green tea:

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Sounds good to me!! I’ve also heard that brewing a nice, expensive cup of fancy tea makes a fragrant treat to look forward to. Doesn’t that sound nice? Just imagine curling up with a good book and a mug of hot honey green tea, filled with antioxidant goodness. This honey ginseng green tea is incredibly delicious and soothing.

In the battle of health benefits between coffee and tea, there is no clear winner. Check out this great article on the subject and enjoy your preferred beverage! For now, I’ll be sticking with a cup of coffee in the morning and tea in the afternoon.

Which do you prefer, coffee or tea?

Super Bowl XLVI

To celebrate the second biggest consumption day of the year, I made a huge spread of veggies, chips, and dips! I’m not surprised that Americans eat almost as much today as they do on Thanksgiving. I’m pretty sure that overeating turkey and side dishes is a BIT healthier than pigging out on chips, dip, and burgers! I tried to make sure that today’s indulgence was as healthy as possible. I picked up a selection of veggies and unique chips at Fresh and Easy and Trader Joes. I love those two stores! Check out the baked lentil chips I found at TJ’s!

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They were incredibly tasty! Only 120 calories per serving with a few grams of protein and fiber to make the crunch have staying power. I could munch on these all day and not feel TOO guilty! Bring on the beans!

I made two great dips. One was a simple green onion dip, but instead of using sour cream, I mixed seasonings into a cup of plain fat free greek yogurt. Creamy! Protein-y! I made a batch the traditional way with sour cream to satisfy picky tastes. Colby liked both versions, but my mom said the sour cream based one was significantly tastier. Try it out for yourself! The second dip I made was adapted from The New Sonoma Diet book.

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I didn’t have tahini on hand, but I didn’t miss it. The hummus was spectacular and SO easy to make! Just get the ingredients together, and blend till smooth!

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Garbanzo beans make hummus so creamy and rich that you only need a tiny bit of olive oil for flavor. Lentil chips with hummus dip might be overkill, but I say BRING ON THE BEANS!! Happy dipping!

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The flavor variety of 8 different veggies, multigrain pita chips, lentil chips, and 5 dipping sauces really hit the spot. The only things I really wish I had now are 3D Doritos and Pizza Rolls. Remember 3D Doritos?? Bring em back, seriously! It would be nice to have my sister here to enjoy those with. We used to chow down on Totino’s and other snack foods whenever we had the house to ourselves for an evening. Good times!

Did you watch the Super Bowl? Did you like the half time show? What did you think of the commercials?

Date Night!

I love sleeping in on weekends, but I hate feeling like half the day is wasted. It was a beautiful day in Las Vegas! Colby and I took advantage of the nice weather at the last minute by going out for a sunset hike on the East Anthem Trail. It’s an easy walk uphill with a beautiful view of the strip from the top. I think the trail goes on for at least 10 miles, but I’ve never gone more than a couple miles in. Nice desert landscape, right?

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The temp dropped about 10 degrees when the sun went down, so we headed to Starbucks to warm up. I usually get a skinny caramel macchiato  at SB, but I decided to try the skinny mocha this time to satisfy my chocolate craving. Colby loves Arnold Palmers (iced tea + lemonade), so he enjoyed the passion iced tea lemonade I suggested. We headed over to Barnes and Noble to enjoy the rest of our date night reading books. Isn’t the SB Valentine’s day cup adorable?

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I got cozy with a stack of diet and nutrition books.

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Meanwhile, Colby sat down to learn some history. We’re so different!

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I really enjoyed Jillian Michael’s’ Master your Metabolism. It features a great overview of various hormones involved in metabolism, including insulin, thyroid hormones, leptin, ghrelin, cortisol, epinephrine, norepinephrine, and others. The book focuses on ridding your diet of processed foods and replacing them with foods from 10 “power nutrient” groups. They include:

  1. Legumes (peas and beans)
  2. Alliums (onions, leeks, shallots)
  3. Berries
  4. Meat and eggs (this group also includes fatty fish like salmon)
  5. Colorful fruits and vegetables
  6. Cruciferous vegetables (such as broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower)
  7. Dark green, leafy veggies
  8. Nuts and seeds
  9. Organic, low-fat dairy
  10. Whole grains

I’m glad I already like all these foods! Micheals offers the following tips to get your metabolism right:

  • Eat every four hours. Eat three meals and a snack daily, nothing after 9 p.m., and no carbs before bed.
  • Eat until you are full, not stuffed.
  • Include protein, carbs, and fat with every meal and snack. (30%, 30%, 40% ideally)

She also emphasized the importance of getting enough sleep and exercising HARD for only 4-5 hours a week. Jillian Michaels is a beast! It would be awesome to be in as great of shape as she is. Hopefully pushing myself in my morning workouts will finally earn me six-pack abs this year!

I’m usually not a big fan of following diet book meal plans, so I skipped past the recipe section and moved onto the next book, The New Sonoma Diet. I love that the premise of this diet book is learning to truly enjoy your food. I agree that mindful eating is key to maintaining a healthy weight. Some of the “power foods” emphasized in the Sonoma Diet plan overlapped with the 10 Jillian suggested.

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The Sonoma Diet sounds awesome! It even advocates drinking a glass of wine with dinner to truly enjoy the meal! Score! I’m all for picking a diet/meal plan you can live with. Deprivation will only lead to overeating forbidden foods in the end.

I actually bought The New Sonoma Diet book after seeing some of the delicious recipes listed in the book. I can’t wait to make some of them!

What are some foods you like to include in your meals frequently? What genre of books do you prefer reading?

My favorite workday breakfast

Good morning! Five days a week, my alarm goes off at 5am… And again at 5:30… And a final time at 5:39… I roll out of bed and into my workout clothes for my morning workout at the torture chamber, RAW fitness:

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Luckily it only takes 10 minutes to drive to the 6 am class, so I’m able to show up before my body is fully awake and aware of what’s about to happen. The workouts are super tough, but I love them! It’s a great way to get some high intensity exercise squeezed into my schedule. Nothing wakes me up quite like a ruthless session of 8 Tabata rounds:

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We did each exercise for 30 seconds on, 10 seconds off. We went through the left side of the board 4 times and then the right side 4 times. Ouch! After a killer like that, I’m ready to head home to get some protein in my body. For maximum muscle gains, you should get some protein in you within 30 minutes.

Fortunately, one of my all time favorite breakfasts is protein and veggie loaded and takes only 10 minutes to prepare! Check it out- here’s how to make easy scrambled eggs with spinach, turkey, and salsa

You’ll need:
1-2 slices of low sodium turkey breast
A handful of raw baby spinach
1 medium egg
1/3 cup of egg whites (2 egg equivalent)
1-2 tbs salsa

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Start by heating some torn up turkey pieces over high heat on a pan lightly coated with cooking spray. Toss the spinach on when it starts to sizzle.

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Move the spinach around for about 30 seconds; it should start to wilt quickly.

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Next, crack an egg in there and add the egg whites.

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Scramble it all up!

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Scoop the eggs into a bowl and top with your favorite salsa. You’re ready to dig in!

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After my eggs, I take a shower and get ready for work. It doesn’t take too long since I have this awesome $6 haircut thanks to Great Clips :)

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There’s no better way to start the day than a SECOND breakfast to look forward to! I whip up some oatmeal and coffee for work on my way out the door. My favorite oatmeal is coaches oats with brown sugar Splenda blend and sliced almonds.

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It’s easy to make, too. Just put 1/3 cups of dry oats and 1 cup of water in a bowl and microwave for 4 mins at 70% power. Top with a sprinkle of almonds and brown sugar.

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I usually bring this along with me to work with a cup of coffee brewed at home.

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Yum! I love a nice medium roast or breakfast blend. To make it extra special, I add a teaspoon of Almond Rocha Splenda based coffee syrup (from Cost Plus) and a splash of unsweetened vanilla almond milk. It’s like having a fancy latte every morning for a fraction of the cost and fewer than 40 calories!!

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My two breakfasts come out to about 150 calories in the scramble and 200 in the oatmeal and coffee. It’s the best 350 calorie breakfast you could hope for! It’s got it all- protein, whole grains, veggies, and some healthy fats from the almonds.

What’s your favorite weekday breakfast? Do you drink coffee or tea?

New Kicks

Yesterday’s errands were a huge pain in the ass. I ended up buying an expensive air filter for my car with the oil change, wasn’t able to use my fro-yo Groupon because Golden Spoon is stingy, and I had to drive all over town. Boo-hoo… But one of my errands was a great success!

A few months ago I ran a 5k and placed 3rd for my age group. I have NO idea how that’s even possible since I’m such a slow runner, unless I was one of only 3 runners in my age group… In any case, I won a $25 gift certificate to Performance Footwear in Las Vegas. I decided to cash in yesterday.

The store was full of all kinds of running shoes, but I wasn’t able to browse. As soon as I came in, the owner had me get on the treadmill for gait analysis. I was feeling very self conscious about my barefoot plod, but it was cool to see the video recording in slow motion. He showed me that my left leg is shorter than my right, that I have slight pronation, and defined arches. Overall, he said my stride is even and good! Although I’m not a runner, he said I could be because my form is good. I was pleasantly surprised, especially since my husband always tells me how terrible my running style is ;)

Next, I found out the fronts of my feet are much wider than my heels. Even though my right foot is a size 7 and 1/2 and my left is 7, I have to wear size 8’s because of the width issue. Wow! And I always thought I was just a size 8 with issues finding a good pair of high heels.

The owner pulled 3 different shoes from the back room and helped me get them on. With a different shoe on each foot, I walked around the store until I could feel which one felt better. I narrowed it down to these:

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They are Brooks Ravenna 2’s. I’ve never had a pair of Brooks before, but I hear they are a great running shoe! On the treadmill video recording, they appeared to correct my pronation a bit and produced adequate arch support. I can’t wait to try them out!

I must say, I have never had a sales person take such aggressive command of a shopping trip- I basically had no choice but to buy the pair of shoes he said were best! I don’t know how I feel about that, but I DO like that they only ended up costing me $70. If I don’t like the way they feel on my runs or in bootcamp, I can return them in the next 10 days. I highly recommend getting this kind of specialized gait analysis to match your feet to a perfect pair of shoes! I would have had no idea.

As an added bonus, I learned a special way to tie my shoes! The traditional method puts too much pressure on the front of the ankle, causing numbness in runners’ toes. If you make this special loop, you’ll remove some of that pressure and still have a snugly fitting shoe:

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I tested my new shoes out a bootcamp this morning! They felt fabulous, but the true test will be running Pitman wash!

Easy lunch

Hello! It’s a very slow day at work, so I thought it would be nice to share my recipe for an easy, tasty lunch!

curried turkey patty
8oz lean ground turkey meat
1 tbs plain bread crumbs
1 tbs egg whites
1 tsp fresh cilantro
1 tsp Calcutta heat (or curry) seasoning
1 tsp onion powder
1/2 tsp minced garlic

Mush all the ingredients together and form into two patties. Pan fry with high-heat canola oil spray, flipping after 3 mins. Cook until no longer pink inside.

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spinach salad

2 cups organic baby spinach
1/2 c sliced grape tomatoes
1/4 c sliced English cucumber
1/4 c sliced yellow bell pepper
1 tbs lite Italian dressing (I like Annie’s naturals)

Layer the sliced veggies in a glass tupperware and drizzle with dressing. Place the spinach on top. When you’re ready to eat, just shake it up!

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I hope you enjoy this tasty dish! It’s yummy with brown rice on the side and maybe even a bit of mustard.

Blogging without a computer

This blog is being created for the enjoyment of my sister, who is currently residing in Italy!

Back in Vegas, things are pretty dull. I’m just killing time at the Honda dealership and planning out the order in which I will run errands today. I got some free bottled water! This is good, since I’ve been downing at least 8 of these babies a day. Gotta stay hydrated, ya know?

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Maybe I’ll include the exciting details of my errands throughout the day today! Just imagine- the intricacies of my haircut, jeans alteration, getting mail, depositing checks, and getting auto insurance for my husband! WOW! Or I’ll just spare you the details and show you pictures of what I’m eating today. Yeah, let’s go with that!